Thursday, January 12, 2012

The First Rule of Yoga: Do No Harm to Your Own Sweet Self


Not long ago, I took a vinyasa flow class from a new yoga teacher (new to me, at least) at one of my favorite yoga studios. At one point, while holding a difficult pose in a challenging sequence, the teacher told us, “When it hurts is when the real yoga begins.”

I never went back to that class. And I’ll never take a class from that teacher again.

As I always tell my own yoga students, and anyone else who’ll listen, yoga is not supposed to hurt. Ever.

Too many people are hurting themselves doing yoga these days, as revealed in a recent excerpt from William J. Broad’s new book The Science of Yoga: The Risks and Rewards  published in the New York Times Magazine called How Yoga Can Wreck Your Body:


This story has caused a furor among students and teachers alike. But it’s not a new story. People who treat yoga as a competitive sport and/or a punishing uber-spiritual discipline run the risk of harming themselves—and they’re doing so in record numbers.

Don’t Worry, Be Happy, Skip That Headstand

Yoga is a practice designed to help us attain enlightenment—and causing pain is not an act of enlightenment. Indeed, the first yama—or precept—of yoga is known as ahimsa. That is, do no harm. This principle of non-violence extends not just to other people—and other sentient beings—but to ourselves as well.

To derive the true benefits of yoga—a flexible body, a quiet mind, and a happy spirit—we need to honor our bodies, acknowledge our limitations, and embrace our possibilities.

You don’t have to stand on your head to do that. You just have to close your eyes, empty your mind, and breathe. We practice yoga so we can enjoy Savasana at the end of class—those divine moments of bliss in which we lie on the floor, completely relaxed from head to toe, dead to the world.

That’s what yoga is really all about. So if you ever find yourself in a class where competition—not serenity—reigns, resist. If you feel pressured to wrap your leg around your head, leave. If your teacher reminds you of Jane Fonda circa 1980 proclaiming “Go for the burn!,” find another teacher. Pronto.

Because ahimsa, like peace, begins with you.


The Year of Giving continues….

Day 11 of 365
I gave away my scale today. I was shopping with a friend who was about to buy one when I suddenly said, “Don’t bother. I’ve got a perfectly good scale at home I haven’t really used since I took up yoga and lost three jeans sizes.” Who needs a scale when you’ve got sun salutations?

Day 12 of 365
Tomorrow I’ve got to do a job interview via Skype. (It’s a brave new world, folks.) So I grabbed a girlfriend with good taste and took her to Macy’s with me. Susan helped me pick out two great options for my Skype spotlight. (Wish me luck!) So I gave her one of the blouses that looked far better on her than I.



1 comment:

  1. Perfectly said, Paula. I've been doing yoga for more than 30 years and it's kept me in shape, content, and relaxed. As you say, it's NOT a competitive sport. People who think "no pain, no gain" are in the wrong place--they're putting a Western spin on an ancient Eastern practice. Play football instead.

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